5 Blessings in Disguise

Posted: January 6th, 2012 | Author: | Filed under: Be Legendary | Tags: , , , | 12 Comments » Braveheart

“Every man dies. But not every man really lives.” William Wallace

William Wallace was a warrior. He was a man who not only spoke those words, but lived them. When you look at his story, it isn’t one of constant triumph, comfort, or safety. It’s a life filled with betrayal, pain, suffering, and sacrifice.

He had an incredibly hard and unjust life. But it was a great life. Even though his life wasn’t easy, it was one that was lived in the truest sense of the word. Moments of pain, fear, and uncertainty are often when we feel most alive. It’s where we learn the most and grow the most.

Although we go through periods that seem unbearable, there is always a reason. That is of course, if we choose to find it.

We’re all going to experience our fair share of pain and suffering, that’s just how life is. Instead of wishing we were somewhere else or someone else, appreciate it. Learn from it. And find a purpose to the struggle.

This article identifies 5 tough life situations that many would put in the “curse” column, but I argue that they hold more benefit to us than any triumph or amount of success. Read on to find out why. Read the rest of this entry »


The Gift of Losing

Posted: July 1st, 2010 | Author: | Filed under: Athleticism | Tags: , , , , , , | No Comments »

No one goes a lifetime without losing, and what would life be without at least a few notches in the losses column?

What do you learn about yourself if you never lose, if you never have to face adversity, or never have to get back up after being knocked down?

If you have never heard of Fedor Emelianenko, look him up. He is to mixed martial arts what an Ali or a Marciano were to boxing, the guy is a living legend. In a sport where having 21 wins and 8 losses (Lidell), or even 18 wins and 10 losses (Couture) earns you the status of a legend, and deservedly so, Fedor goes above and beyond. He had a record of 32 wins, with 1 loss and 1 no-contest before suffering his first loss in 10 years this past Saturday, something not seen in the world of mixed martial arts where there are so many different ways to lose. Read the rest of this entry »


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