With all of this said; with the notion that we need a purpose, a mission, that we can’t pin our hopes on a relationship, that we need to be complete individuals and men to be worthy of a complete, fulfilling relationship…
It still might not happen, and you need to not only be okay with that, but thrive knowing this information.
I’m a firm believer that behind most great men, is an even greater woman. This article isn’t a call for men to break free “from the chains of woman.” To the contrary.
It’s a call for men to be the men that actually warrant a great woman!
Don’t be the lapdog that she can mold and shape into whatever she needs. Be the man that takes her to new heights, and she you. Be the complete person she deserves, not the emotionally needy boy still recovering from a never-ending slough of mommy issues.
No, this isn’t a call to break free from women, we need them, and we love them. They’re the beautiful, sexy, and smart angels that deserve a man of character, of strength, and a man with a purpose. To be that man, you must first come to grips with the fact that you may never meet the right woman, and that’s not only okay, but there’s benefits in this.
This is For You
Top: my Mom.
I wrote this article not because it’s Valentine’s Day – that happened accidentally. It wrote this article because I get a dozen or so emails weekly from young guys frustrated with love. Young men – even middle-aged men – worried that they may not find the right girl, or that they may be single for their entire lives.
You may feel this way because your parents had a great marriage, and you want that for yourself. Well, I’m the same way…
A part of my ideal day – an exercise I re-do yearly to maintain the right focus in my life and in my business – is waking up next to, who I believe, is the most beautiful woman in the world…
I want kids, a family, the whole nine. I really do think it’s important. In part, I probably want this because of the strength of my parents marriage. But, I’ve got two pretty unique parents who’ve shed a lot of light on how to live a great life. My Mom didn’t get married until she was 39. I’ve asked her if she was ever worried about being an old made for her entire life…
Her answer: No. She was making moves, progressing through life, growing, developing, CREATING a life that had meaning, purpose, and that she was proud of. The fact that she met my Old Man is awesome. She had two kids, one beautiful, one butt ugly (my sis is a beautiful young lady), and has a great life. But her life would be great without the husband, kids, house, and dog. She’d make sure of it.
So, fellas. This article is a BIG call to action. Come to grips with the fact that you may never find that right lady and enjoy this fucking life! Leave your fingerprints all over this planet. Make big things happen. Develop into a true, strong, honorable, courageous man, and be worthy of a woman who is the same. Don’t waste your days searching, waiting, and worrying. Use your days to work, develop, and create.
